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Your profile

Your profile is edited in six sections. You can fill them in any order, and you can come back later — nothing has to be finished in one sitting.

The six sections

What each section covers, so you know where to find something.

  1. 1

    Photos

    Your primary photo and any others you add.

  2. 2

    About you

    Your display name, a short headline and a longer description.

  3. 3

    Basics

    Gender, who you are seeking, date of birth, location, visibility and email preferences.

  4. 4

    Details

    Appearance, lifestyle, background and family.

  5. 5

    Interests

    Activities and interests, plus a few short prompts.

  6. 6

    Looking for

    The attributes you would prefer to meet — leave any of them blank for no preference.

Writing something people can reply to

The most useful profiles are specific and plain. A headline that names one real thing about your week works better than a slogan. Try to give a reader something to ask about: an allotment, a long drive, a book you are stuck on. Two or three concrete details are worth more than a list of adjectives.

What is optional

Most fields are optional. Anything you leave blank simply shows as not provided rather than being guessed at.

Profile visibility

Basics includes a visibility setting. With visibility turned off, your profile stays out of browse and search. That is the specific effect of the setting; it is not a general privacy mode.

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